Stoffer Children’s costumes

We didn’t go all out as a family like the Gardners, but here are Stella and Violet’s costumes.  Stella is Rainbow Bright.  We have an old DVD of Rainbow Bright and Stella is obsessed with it.  Violet is a lion.  If we were going to do a family themed costume I thought I could dress up as a dentist from Minnesota and make a name tag for Violet that says Cecil.

New Band Discovery

Last week a buddy of mine got me a free ticket to a concert.  I was just coming back from a vacation to DC.  I was really tired and not sure I wanted to go.  I had never even heard of this artist before and hadn’t taken the time to listen to any of his music beforehand.  But then I thought about how I had not been to a concert in over a year and decided it would be good for me to get out and see a new band.

I was really glad I did.  It was an awesome show.  Maybe it was because I went in with no expectations, but it was really refreshing to discover a new band that I like.  The artist is called Youth Lagoon and I have been listening to them a lot lately.  They feel like kind of a mix between St. Vincent and El Ten Eleven. Check it out.



Halloween is rad

So guys Halloween is completely radical.  We’ve been talking about it a lot at my house lately.  We’ve discussed some of my classic costumes (Bilbo Baggins, Captain America) and we’ve thought about what to wear this year (my costume will most likely involve a mustache).  so most of us have children at this point and children dressing in costumes is probably the cutest thing that is possible.  I’m just looking for some of us to share what our kids are going to dress as and maybe some pictures or something.  Here’s what my girls are planning to do…

Juniper – Piggie (this is her third year in a row as a pig she’s a huge fan)

Elsie – Doppey (the best of the 7 dwarfs by far)

Mabel – She’s not sure yet it is between a witch and dumbo right now.

Arianne – She’s not sure yet we are considering reusing our Simon and Pregnant Garfunkel costumes which is exactly how me and spence dressed when we dressed as them years ago (Arianne is pregnant.  That is an important part of being pregnant Garfunkel).

Awesome Reunion

We talked a little bit about getting together maybe early next year for some kind of reunion.  There was talk of doing some kind of guy’s trip where we do a sweet backpack trip or something for 2-3 days.  I’d be up for that.  I’d also be up for something with families as well.  We could probably all stay with the Jennejohns as long as we’re all ready to get pretty zany.  A few ideas

– Grand Canyon – Camp at the bottom.  This is a great trip that I’ve done a couple of times.  February/March is actually a pretty great time to go because nobody goes and it is actually pretty warm at the bottom.

– Utah camping – Camp somewheres in Utah.  Zion’s could be good because its easy to fly into Vegas and I think Zion’s isn’t that far from there. 

– California – It is the best state hands down.  I’d love to live there but just going on a vacation may be enough.

– Midwest –  I’ve heard some awesome stuff about the Wisconsin Dells. 

– Yellowstone/Jackson Hole – Mark says he has a cabin there.


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Understanding Fandom

I have never really been into sports. I played soccer and basketball as a kid but for whatever reason I have never really taken a great interest in sports. Maybe because I suck at them. But I do enjoy the pickup games I sometimes play, and even if I didn’t you would think I could still enjoy watching others play.  I have often puzzled over what the appeal is of watching an NBA championship. You’ve seen one jump shot you’ve seen them all, right?

Then I heard this podcast on Radiolab: It explains how exceptional circumstances can give rise to plays where the competitors go “off book”. These novel moments make spectating exciting because they reveal the endless possibilities of the game and give us something unique to remember for a lifetime.

This was an epiphany for me. Maybe this is what gets people to obsess over sports so much. The same mechanic that gets them going back to the casino. Maybe Lambeau Field is just a big Skinner box that we have collectively decided is OK to get wrapped up in. This made sense, but I still couldn’t see myself spending three hours of my Saturday watching a hockey game just on the hope that I might see Alexandre Burrows bat in a hockey puck from mid-air. I mentioned this to Steel while we were all in California.  He basically confirmed that if my entry into fandom is through these off-book moments that is not going to be enough to hold interest.

So what is it then that gets people coming back?  What is the economic incentive (behavioral or monetary) for someone to give hours and hours of time this week to a series of NBA games that will have no material impact on their life?  (Assuming they do not gamble.)


Then today I read an article that might be another clue into this world of fandom.  I don’t know why I clicked on this article about Stephen Curry’s performance in the NBA Finals.  I didn’t watch any of the games.  But I found it fascinating.  It think what drew me in was the statistical analysis and the underlying strategy that it revealed.  The article basically uses statistics to show in what areas Stephen excels and then recommends strategies that could optimize team performance.  The author then provides some counterpoints to his own argument and explores theories for why the team may not be adopting these strategies.

After reading this I was struck by how similar this article makes sports to video games.  Video games are great because you get constant performance feedback and can use that information to adjust your strategies to increase your chance of winning.  That seems to be exactly what this article is aiming to do.

So what do you guys think?  Is it stats and armchair strategizing that keeps people engaged in sports in the absence of off-book moments?  Or am I approaching this in a completely backwards manner.  Is it enough for most people to simply watch a sporting match and enjoy it without thinking about all this other stuff?